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Women! Get More Love By Giving Less

Any woman can attract a better quality man or inspire the man she has to give her more love, affection and romance, by learning the truth about Overnurturing. What is Overnurturing? It’s doing too much in a relationship. Giving too much. It’s the reverse of how a relationship works best for a woman.Giving is what men are supposed to do. Women are supposed to receive the love, affection and gifts that men give, and then give love and affection back to them. Though many of us have caught onto this, its challenging to stop doing what weve always done, what weve been told is the way to do things, and to fly in the face of the fallout we fear. So Im going to tackle one little issue Nurturing. Nurturing is masculine. If you want to get what he wants to give, stop nurturing your man. Radical as this sounds, try it. Stop doing. Stop giving. Stop massaging your husbands feelings. Stop helping your date do the relationship thing and let him flounder until he figures it out. He will. This whole c...
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You Can Improve Your Relationship

It seems as if creating successful relationships with our significant others and parenting children are two of the most difficult jobs we face and yet we get no formal training in either. Its as if people believe that we are born with an inherent ability to do these two things. Yet, look around us. In the US, the divorce rate is slightly over 50%! I dont know anywhere but baseball where a 50% average is a good thing. Couples go through life getting along when times are good; and fighting with, ignoring, or leaving each other when things get tough. Most people believe that to seek help with their relationships means to admit a certain kind of defeat that says something about who they are as a person. Or possibly, they believe that relationships are something we are just supposed to be able to manage on our own. Or, finally, some people believe that those out there helping couples cant know any more than they do. After all, whats to know about keeping relationships together? Well, the tr...
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Your Online Dating profile how to present yourself online

For many people, the hardest part of starting to date online is figuring out what to put in their profile. All dating sites offer their members a profile page, where each member can write about his or herself, upload a photo (or several) etc. What you write about yourself in the profile is extremely important: second only to the picture in terms of making other members aware of who you are and making them want to contact you. Many people are keen to start searching for and contacting people as soon as they join a site. As a result, they either leave their profile blank, or write something quickly before beginning their search. This is OK if you're just having a look around, but if you are serious about finding love online, you should take some time and make sure your profile is a good reflection of who you are. After all, its what makes you stand out from the rest of the people on the site. Here are a few points to keep in mind: Not too long, not too short Try to write a profile th...
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3 Categories Women Put You In Before You Meet

When approaching women, even before you have said a word or done anything she has already unconsciously put you into one of three categories: I Like Him I Don’t Like Him Undecided Now that you are aware of the three different categories lets go over each ones strengths and weaknesses for you. Category #1: I like Him: If you happen to look or remind her of someone that she liked, dress in a certain type of way that she finds attractive or anything else that she happens to connect with. Congrats you have a heads up on everyone and when it comes to taking it to the next level its all On You. This is a great thing and if you fall in the Average Guy category expect this to happen with around 10 percent of the women that you meet who are available. Category #2: I Don’t Like Him: You ever meet someone and for no apparent or real good reason you don’t like them? Guess what women are the same way and for good measure most women throw unconfident men and a whole slew of petty reasons in there as...
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3 Reasons Why Inner Game Will Help Your Love Life

  Have you ever had great success in one venue, maybe house parties, but were unable to succeed with women you met other places, like perhaps Clubs? Often it is easier for you to be cool and social in one venue than another. This is your `comfort zone`. You know what to say, how to say it, and who to say it too. But outside of that zone, you are toast! This is because we often use certain external techniques and social skills that do not really apply to every venue we might find ourselves in. When you have deep set beliefs that you are a high status male, and that no matter where you are, that you are among the elite males, then all these anxieties and problems fall away. How? Because your strength and resolves makes other people change THEIR mode of behavior to suit yours. If Bill Clinton walked into a raging rock concert or hip hop concert, this one man, would have everyone in a completely different frame of mind, all begging to appease HIS way of interaction. The people bend to ...
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